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yes how are u doing i am a black male 23 in montgomery AL JUST LIKE 2 HAVE FUN |
posted by Unknown
10/9/2006 12:58:00 PM |
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Not to mention those profiles where you see 100 pics of the HOT wife and NONE of the husband..... L & M |
posted by MILO
10/9/2006 9:34:00 AM |
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Explicit image available, join sdc.com to viewWould love to cum to your party...just is that there is too much party here in Huntsville to break away at this time. Will try to attend is our schedule clears up. Chow baby! |
posted by Unknown
10/9/2006 7:55:00 AM |
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Here's a bright idea ! If your afraid of being noticed... HIDE YOUR PROFILE FROM TRIAL MEMBERS ! sigh its as simple as that.. that waynon of the browseres will see your pictures.AND I highlydoubt that any couple that PAYS for this site is going to rat you outto your family or office. Same thing i tell couples who dont wantsingle men... use the block feature ! the webmaster made these featuresfor these reasons... just use them and stop complaining.
but generally i agree with the topic.. i always get emails from coupleswith no pictures. And surprise surprise they are the ones that usualychicken out.
how hard is it to post a pic with your head cropped out ? its so simplethat i figure that anyone who isnt willing to take the effort is either.
!: Really really really ugly
2: Not serious
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HELLO I'M TACISK THANK YOU, SEE YOU |
posted by TACISK
10/6/2006 1:07:00 AM |
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HELLO I'M TACISK THANK YOU, SEE YOU |
posted by TACISK
10/6/2006 1:07:00 AM |
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Thats one thing we always try to do... Show ourself's as we are... we are here because we don't hide what we are and who we are... we try to up-load new, fun, sexy pics as often as we can... all for your and our plesure... We feel that if no pic's (real ones) no party... that simple. |
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We totally agree with Mickie! We still wonder why profiles, without pictures, are allowed? That will be a good selection to prevent fakers and people who are just curious. We must admit that we don't have recognizable pictures because of that. |
posted by Unknown
10/4/2006 11:11:00 AM |
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It's really as simple as Mickie says it is. You will get more attention if you add pics to your profile. Personally I also think people should not take the piss on people who choose not to post pics as long as they behave correctly.It's their good and hones right not to, for whatever reason they might have.They pay so they can present their profile the way they please. But reality in society is that almost everything is based on visual feedback, especially SEX So if you dont post pics, dont be depressed about not getting any mails or answers to mails you send, as it also is everybodies good right NOT to respond to mails without pics. To Mickie we say WELCOME and have a great time here as our new manager !And by the way............nice pics :) |
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hey for all it's worth...as soon as we got your email saying "you'll get 10 times more responses if you post pics" we kinda went picture crazy. and sure enough we're already going to orlando this weekend to meet up with some hotties! so thanks for the advice AND thanks for the perseverence and the patience you display. keep up the good work. don't let the few ass-hats fuck it up for everyone. cheers. jenn and moe |
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We just assume that if there are no profile pics, somebody's hiding something! |
posted by Unknown
9/18/2006 7:30:00 PM |
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I could write a dissertation on your 100 photos . |
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Explicit image available, join sdc.com to view want more? |
posted by Unknown
9/15/2006 10:06:00 AM |
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I could easily write 1000 words while looking at your picture Alexandra. |
posted by IAMKINKY
9/14/2006 10:46:00 AM |
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Apictureisworthatleast999words.Ifit'sagoodone,itmaybeworth1000.That'smy2cents.
~alexandra~
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I guess you're right, but a lot of people here like their privacy or sometimes the lifestyle is a secret part of their lifes and they want to keep it that way for some reason, I say: better to know them here before we can exchange numbers or get to the date part of our search. |
posted by F2005D
9/14/2006 9:55:00 AM |
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PICTURE OR NOT TO PICTURE; THAT IS THE QUESTION. PICTURES CAN BE DECEIVING, QUALITY PEOPLE ARE OUR GOAL. SORRY WE CHOOSE TO BE INDIVIDUALS, IF NO ONE CONTACTS US, OH WELL I GUESS WE WILL HAVE TO JUST GO ON WITH LIFE. MY COMMENTS ARE NEVER DIRECTED TO ANY ONE RESPONSE, JUST THE TOPIC IN QUESTION. SO PLEASE DON'T TAKE IT PERSONAL. THIS IS NOT THAT SERIOUS. |
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Well, it's cuse:..... "Hey Mickie your so fine your so fine you blow mind-- hey Mickie, hey, hey, hey Mickie!" Come on don't care who ya are that is kinda funny. Sorry, sorry, could not help myself but seriously folks there are two main reasons. Insecure about job implications/social and are new and not sure of it. Second, quite honestly you would really might not want to see them! Whatcha think Mickie close! |
posted by Unknown
9/11/2006 10:38:00 PM |
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we decided that if you want to get people interested we need to show everything.The people who have read our profile all the way know why. pics are the first introduction and we believe that attraction is one of the most important factors in "hooking up". we are here to meet new friends and a select few close friends for good times and fun.and if we dont think they are what we want,doesnt mean they are not good people just not what we want. And it goes both ways, all people involved should be happy with everyone at the moment. Be open and good luck all!!!!! J&J |
posted by Unknown
9/11/2006 9:47:00 PM |
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This is in response to Isn't telling sombody not to dare dictate to others, in fact.....dictating to others.....? Decaff my friend, it tastes just as good. :P To expound on my previous post, it is common courtesey to at least include a pic when you are emailing a couple. You can insert them right in the email on this site. You can keep them private otherwise. There is no excuse for not at least sending a nice clean face pic IMHO. Rob |
posted by ROXLLF
9/11/2006 9:39:00 PM |
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- My first pic is a full body shot that is far enough away and grainy enough to get a general idea of what I look like without being able to pick me out of a line-up.
My understanding is that trial members are not able to look at the additional photos, which do include close-ups of my face and body. If a member becomes a full member, they will be able to view the other photos. I am only really concerned about the non-members peaking in and potentially wreaking havoc in my professional life. I make the assumption that a person would not pay for access, just to look for people they know so they can go around causing problems.
The people who have met me said I look like my photos and they are a true representation of who I am, although they do agree that they would not be able to pick me out of a line-up if they just saw the first pic. It could be so and so...but maybe not...the uncertainty about my true identity is what I was going after in the first pic.
On the flip side, pictures can and do get used as leverage or to do harm. While they may not be admissible in a formal proceeding, they can sure cause havoc and create an uncomfortable or embarassing situation in certain circumstances.
I don't respond to those who do not have pics on their profile or who don't send one with their e-mail. I have had several contact me by e-mail, but almost all have included a picture and subsequent pictures when replying. That is fine with me and they have turned out to be real. They later told me they took their pics down due to a situation of nosey neighbor's or co-workers, etc.
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Taken directly from our profile... *Note* We would prefer g-rated pics...we don't have a problem with genital pics, but we would like to see both of your faces. Don't make us ask for them...it is annoying at best. If you cannot send pics of you both (for whatever reason), then don't write...sounds simple, huh? We rarely ever if at all get an e-mail from anyone without a pic.. IMHO, there are way too many other things about the lifestyle and meeting people that can out you than sending a decent photo of a non sexual nature that could easily be explained should anyone ask.. Some folks just go overboard with descretion.. Try Googling your own name under photos, you might be surprised at what you see!! ..my.02 cents.. |
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I have an additional comment about pictures. We show our faces, but we don't post action or full nude shots. I am completely convinced that we do NOT get rude, obscene notes from anyone including my beloved single males because of it. What do the rest of you think? C |
posted by Unknown
9/11/2006 9:47:00 AM |
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PICTURE PEROGATIVE, WE WILL CONTACT AND SUPPLY PICTURES TO THOSE THAT WOULD LIKE TO CORRESPOND. EVERYONE HAS THERE OWN REASONS FOR SUPPLING PICTURES AND NOT. WE SEND OUR PICTURES TO PRIVATE EMAILS. THIS IS STILL AN EACH TO HIS/HER OWN SITE, DON'T RESPOND, BUT DON'T DARE DICTATE TO OTHERS. |
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Yep pics are important, we don't bother with profiles who have no pics Rob and Laurel |
posted by ROXLLF
9/10/2006 9:24:00 PM |
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Pics are VIP- I agree with most of what everyone else wrote.. BUT here is MY gripe.... Why, oh why, if a couple is listed as a couple on SDC, do some NOT have pics of the man portion of the couple when they want to play as a couple??? They post the woman's pic but NO guy.. makes me think she may be a hottie, but he ain't :( |
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We don't like profiles without pics. If we read your profile and like it, we will still email you, but we will ask for a pic. We have pics, and we update them every few months. We hate pics that are years old. The line that people use that they worry because of discretion is bull. We have children, both small and grown, but we still have pics. The answer to that is easy. LEAVE THE FACE OFF! Someone you know may think it looks like you, but they can't prove it without your face unless you have an identifying body mark, or something. My husband is shy about pics, but we still included one of him dressed. Plus we have others of him in our private pics if someone requests to see more of him. The one thing we don't do is send gentital shots. Your genitals tell me nothing about you. Leave that for if we meet and become intimate. Everyone know you get a better response if you at least include some pics. |
posted by Unknown
9/10/2006 5:16:00 PM |
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We agree about the need for pictures but have heard this topic debated in our yahoo group many times. We feel that if someone we know is here and sees our pic then they either have to fess up to us or keep it secret. Then we hear the others can`t put their pics up because they are career people and can`t risk getting caught. We know a couple that felt they were in this catergory so they never posted any pics and they got way less response then others with pics. The only profiles we might check out without pics is ones that may be very close to home since we enjoy the friends with benefits relationship the most. We also will not invite anyone to our house parties unless we have met BOTH of them at the same time already. |
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Vent away sugah! Honestly, I open less than 1% of profiles that do not display a picture, and it's usually when I come across them on the validation page of a member we believe to be a match with us (who had pictures on their profile). When I see profiles without pictures, I pay the same attention to them, as I do with the crappy advertising on a magazines' fluff pages... don't really care about what they're selling, 'cause they're likely not selling anything good. There's always a certain concern that my wife or I could be recogized by someone on the street... But we thought of that scenario and I guess our first question to them would have to be, how it was that they came across the pictures in the first place.... degenerate perverts!...what were you doing here? ... , oh you are?..., really!!(heheh)... us too!! :)~ Oh, and as far as those members who only post pictures of their genitals... Now that actually makes us laugh, they're as much help as the black silhouette it replaced. If that's the best feature someone has to offer... ummm, yeah... think we'll have to pass! However, we do rely on validations more than the pictures! If they're validated, it's an indication that the person is who they say and are serious about meeting... In the real world ('cause cyber and picture sharing is so last century). Let me end this on a good note and say that we are very satisfied with SDC. We have met and partied with some great people since we got into this... ummm, (I hate the word lifestyle) fun world and we owe plenty of unforgettable moments and experiences because of it. Keep up the good work and who knows... someday we may even bump into eachother on the street or at a club on SB. Ciao A&S |
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we also agree ,what really get us that there opening line starts up with i have a big one and i can go all night .thats too long and what ever happened to hello my name is and a picture to go along with the hello ,or the ones that say we are real but should put some what shallow [wow] just venting also love liz and leo from cape coral |
posted by LIZLEO
8/24/2006 10:04:00 AM |
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Originally posted by fire1604: "We have seen quite a fewprofiles on SDC people posing as a couple or a single and find that isnot the case, a single man or woman posing as a couple or a coupleposing as a single to try get people looking for that group to viewtheir profile, in the later case you would find something like this inwritten in there profile we are not looking for ----- we are onlylooking for -----.If they want to look for a single male orfemale, or even a couple, why should they have to weed through theliars to try find some REAL profiles to look at and maybe email someoneto do what some of us are here for, and that isn't pussy footing aroundweeding out the liars. In the beginning we all are a bit shy inposting pics, but if you are here for the Real thing then you will findout you get more response with pics If you are a couple then list as a couple not a single and vise versa Personal opinion is they should have to correct their profile or be suspended"
A big AMEN on this..... I'm not of the belief the pics must show ones face, but pics with even the faces blotted to maintain discretion should be posted.....
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Soooo true!! I ALWAYS delete emails without pictures, and when I find profiles without them, I just keep on moving. |
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Your form in image is enticing.I would love a chance to shoot some dramatic concepts with you.
Peace and Blessings, Artful1 |
posted by ARTFUL1
7/30/2006 4:28:00 PM |
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Mickie you are so right! Im very glad your pics are here because you are the most beautiful girl on the site! I could'nt think of a better entertainment director to have? The owners of SDC did there homework and it shows..... Have a great night. Kenny Thompson |
posted by Unknown
7/27/2006 10:14:00 PM |
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Amen! |
posted by Unknown
7/23/2006 10:38:00 AM |
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We have seen quite a few profiles on SDC people posing as a couple or a single and find that is not the case, a single man or woman posing as a couple or a couple posing as a single to try get people looking for that group to view their profile, in the later case you would find something like this in written in there profile we are not looking for ----- we are only looking for -----. If they want to look for a single male or female, or even a couple, why should they have to weed through the liars to try find some REAL profiles to look at and maybe email someone to do what some of us are here for, and that isn't pussy footing around weeding out the liars. In the beginning we all are a bit shy in posting pics, but if you are here for the Real thing then you will find out you get more response with pics If you are a couple then list as a couple not a single and vise versa Personal opinion is they should have to correct their profile or be suspended |
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Mickie, Maybe it should be mandatory to have at least a pic of each. I dont believe the bullshit that their jobs are 2 hi profile to be seen. Also whats with posting 99 pics of her and none of the guy . He must be a real dog with money is all we can figure. In a cpls profile there should be pics of both people so a cpl can see both and not take 1 for the team. thanks for letting us vent hehehe Mike & DI |
posted by MD4
7/14/2006 7:18:00 AM |
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We agree...the solution....CAM. With cams today, it takes about 5 minutes and around $30 to set one up. We cam a lot and we get so many people telling us that they don't know how to set it up or don't know how to use one....bull crap! You will see a 100 people in a chat room and there will 3 cams on....wonder why that is???? By the way....love your pics. We do have new pics coming, we also hate seeing the dates on pics that are from 3 years ago. |
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Hey Mickie and all the others, I agree, all the excuses because of work, family and others. Just wonder what your co-workers and familymembers are doing on a site like this, just accidently here?? No way !! Also, people requesting to see pic(s) while having a black box on their own profile, are picture collectors in my opinion. Maybe a suggestion for SDC, only profiles with at least one picture. Ciao |
posted by Unknown
7/14/2006 4:28:00 AM |
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When a profile completely lacks even a single photo, it raises several pertinent questions. First --- is the party involved a witch, warlock, or vampire? If so, their absence from any photographic documentation is understandable. According to Wikipedia, those occult folks just don't show up in pics. File this one under "exceptions". Secondly --- has the member without an online photo been recently relocated by the Federal Witness Protection Program after pissing off Giovanni "Hacksaw" Grazziano? If so, give he/she/them a pass! Giovanni has a nasty-azz temper & is no fun to be around when he's swinging a ball peen hammer or Louisville Slugger. Thirdly ------ Is the member in question waiting for a "Special Wide-Angle Lense" to arrive for his/her digital camera so that they can "squeeze into an online photo" to have it uploaded for our "viewing pleasure"? If so, our patience may be considered a virtue. No rush for that particular upload. Which brings me to the final point. I have seen 2-3 profiles where photographs could possibly be REMOVED without a great deal of objection from the SDC community or any collective gnashing of pearly white teeth. Now I'm not implying that the folks I'm referring to were "unnattractive"....but in one case a couple was also being sought locally for parole violations by local law enforcement. After about a week, the authorities removed the "Wanted" posters from the Post Office. Seems that small children were having nightmares after seeing their pictures. While I certainly like seeing at least a semblance of a photograph (or photos in an email), occasionally things work out for the greater good...even when we don't anticipate it. |
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We agree no pics no reply, the next technology will have scratch and sniff screens. That will be DAH SHIT!!Joe & Ana |
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I agree. Not posting pics is like going to a restaurant and not being provided with a menu. tee hee!!!! |
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pics are a must, but i dont understand why people dont update pics, when they have them, i see pics from 3 yrs ago, thats not current |
posted by TEXASDG
7/9/2006 9:13:00 PM |
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We agree on both sides of this and we are the no face couple on SDC. Explicit image available, join sdc.com to view Mickie & most of the SDC Staff has seen us both and can verify we both are very real, even though we have no faces showing in our pics at all. We meet a lot of those wanting to meet us at the no pressure happy hour meet n greets. One sure way to make sure the person(s) on the other side of chat is REAL and not fake, is to get them on a cam 2 cam chat to verify that everyone is on the up and up and certainly not fake. A lot of the fakes out there refuse to cam or make excuses where the wife is all to often. This way you all know everyone is REAL and the fakes that play games usually get kicked to the curb to pick on somone else. Those that won't cam with us pass up a real chance to see us & we will not cam with those we never plan on meeting. If they will not cam we usually won't with them either. It goes both ways in this. Fair is fair, right? We too have ran across many fakes that are using other's pics on this site as well as many other sites we belong to. The only real way to know the truth is to see them live on cam. Some try to have cybersex with us, when that happens the chat closes and so does out cam, then the BLOCK goes up. We won't play games with anyone on this site, why should we waste our time on those who do? Others spoil the fun for the rest of us when they chose to lie and use someone's pics that aren't theirs to begin with. Learn a lesson and move on fast like we do. They aren't worth your time, so don't put up with any excuses. There is no need for it, if everyone is serious. Mr. & Mrs. South (the no-face cpl...lol) |
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Expo, I do understand your point, we too have had people share photos with us that we knew were not them - in fact they were of other people that we also knew. It certainly happens. I also found that if you look up Swingers with our city on google, or our call name... my front page pic from SDC shows up... hence why my first pic is sometimes distorted or a body part and changes frequently. There must be a better way to protect peoples identities via the website - although I maintain that you should have a few pics in your private album to share when asked. We'll never eliminate the infamous pic collector from the world-wide-web. Mrs. |
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We understand both sides ,having pictures and not having them.Example, a long time ago we had our profile copied and sent to where I work.Anyone who thinks their pictures are safe whether they are protected here or not needs to rethink that one. Just the other day while in chat ,a person sent a picture of his wife,it was not his wife ,it was a picture of someone who we met at pleasure palace a few months ago.When questioned, poof wen the chat. As far as I am concerned I do not care what people do . Most of those who do have pictures have multiple years , its a difficult one to figure out which one is the current picture.Its usually the one that really set far back. How do you really know when you receive a picture if it really is them. You have to meet first.Or you have seen them prior. If you do not meet people who do not have pictures , say thanks but no thanks and move on. |
posted by EXPO969
7/8/2006 8:21:00 PM |
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We do not respond without pics! Callie & Curtis |
posted by Unknown
7/8/2006 5:17:00 PM |
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I think that the excuse that you are a professional or prominent in the community is bullshit! First of all ... we're both professionals and moved from a small community where we both were very well known. IF someone recognizes you (and I HAVE had that happen) they're on here too... what the hell?! Secondly, if you're really that worried SDC has a private photo feature so that you can attach photos via email even if there are none in your public profile. Get over yourselves! We're all here for the same thing! Our profile very clearly states : NO PIC/ NO RESPONSE and if I open an email without pics... I do delete and move on, the only people really losing are those that don't have pics. Finally, I agree with the statement that there has to be some type of physical attraction to begin with... without at least of glimpse of who you are, I'd be wasting my time to pursue it any further. Mrs. |
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Hi, mickie we are understand 100% and we think that they not real...So, to the people who do that we feel sorry! |
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Just signed up and downloaded pictures. But the delay in getting them on the profile is frustrating. I understand some may not want to chat with a pictureless profile. We'll just wait a day or two for the pictures to load so that we can play. |
posted by Unknown
7/5/2006 12:15:00 AM |
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Hi Mickie ~ I also get frustrated by the people here who request an outside e-mail address to send photos. I understand completely if you don't want face pics in your public profile but please have them to attach in the body of your correspondence! This site is set up so we can contain our lifestyle in this forum. And for those out there who only send mail to my picture... if you don't read my profile, you don't get a reply! All the best ~ Miss-E |
posted by MISS-E
7/2/2006 3:12:00 PM |
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That would be HOT!!! Explicit image available, join sdc.com to view |
posted by Unknown
6/27/2006 2:17:00 PM |
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My Question is when Mickie will do a Toni Basil themed photo shoot??? You know, in some skimpy little cheerleader outfit, shaking her pom poms.
Hey Mickie, you're so fine. You're so fine you blow our minds, hey Mickie!
Let the bidding begin to be the photographer for that photo shoot.
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posted by Unknown
6/27/2006 8:38:00 AM |
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WOW, oh the excuses for not posting a picture. And yes they are excuses as SDC has features that prevent non-members from viewing profile pictures. Common folks, lets be real, if you do not have any profile pictures and you are contacting folks its only common sense to include a picture within your email. Its not about kids of friends, etc. etc. etc. its just a lame excuse. And yeah I am a single guy ah a true single guy, and I get emails from couples with common sense to include a pic in their email. So why contact someone and not send them a picture you know they are going to ask. Be honest and Be REAL. |
posted by SBPFLA
6/23/2006 11:37:00 AM |
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Well here is my question.....Is it REALLY necessary to post 100 pics???? I mean cumon' I like looking at a sexy woman just as much as the next person but 5 pages of the SAME shots????? There is such a thing as TOO MUCH of a good thing..... |
posted by Unknown
6/23/2006 9:17:00 AM |
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Hi Mickie, I think is an individual choice to post pic on the profile, my personal experience , does not make a big difference for me, but you know I'm part of the Monster category, ugly and single male, lol. If I may say so, what bothers me the most on SDC is the fact that member don't replay to mail, and that I think is not really nice, single , couple or.... To finish a pic will be nice on the profile, and for the couple thay shold all the time post a pic together. To all members have fun and enjoy your erotic life, Mr italianExplicit image available, join sdc.com to view |
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Well you all can have your own conclusions...there are a lot of everyhinhg in this particular blog, cautios, idiots and smart asses...anyway...it seems to be very practical and simple that reminds me when our parents tought us when we were kids when a stranger comes to your house - if you don't kow who is it don't open the door-, well if you don't see a pic don'r fucking respond and done deal....don't you think???....Let everyone take the safety steps according to their lives.... |
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I will tell you why we had to remove our pics from our profile, you say we are all here for the same reason, let me tell you, unfortunatly-NO- there are a few nosy people that are just fakes.....we had that one fake who happenned to know us from work-my wife and I work in TV-(we both producers for diferent stations) and started to spread the "news" that we were swingers, as you migth imagine I had to stop him in a very drastical way....since then we decided to remove our pics, when we want to contact someone we email them with pics inserted, that's a safer way. C & N |
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I guess we've just been involved in this so long we take stuff like this in stride. It doesn't bother us at all. We just close the email and move on to the next one. |
posted by Unknown
6/22/2006 5:12:00 PM |
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Well, I understand that people might not want to post a picture becuase they do not want people to identify them DUH but simply placing some sort of picture like maybe a shot of your stomach? or your legs? anything that can give the readers of your emails a small peek at whom they are talking to! I am not saying uplaoding straight on face shots with your social secrurity number and the address to your home DUH! Explicit image available, join sdc.com to view |
posted by Unknown
6/22/2006 11:46:00 AM |
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Even with your point, you are bestill being very shallow! Lets think for a minute, oh "Dah" maybe we have kids who have friends thats may look in on "SDC". Oh & "Dah", maybe there are people who we know look in on "SDC", & we don't want them to find us on the site. Maybe if you can take one minute, or excuse me that may take to long for you to count. A second,. to ask the person why don't they post there photo you would know intsead of ASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSUMING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! DAH!Explicit image available, join sdc.com to view Venting back! |
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Hi, u do hv a point; however I agree also with SPONTAANSTEL ; Yr point is mitigated by the fact that the majority of the photos on SDC r just poor (ok I no its not flickr!): It does take a bit of creativity, imagination & technical nouce:( & mayb a decent camera?) |
posted by OLDBUOY
6/22/2006 3:21:00 AM |
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why you dont respon me? |
posted by Unknown
6/22/2006 12:15:00 AM |
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Well...I agree...We wouldn't even respond to someone who can't show us what they look...ninety percent of attraction is physical, the REST happens after we meet...not sayin everyone has to be the model of perfection, just sayin...let what happens ...HAPPEN...and lets have lotsa fun in the process !! |
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But. Do they have to be face pics?? my wife is totally scared about submitting face pics, because she was recognized from some single guy at her past job.Explicit image available, join sdc.com to view |
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I agree completely! |
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We agree wholeheartedly that pictures should be posted of BOTH partners or at least sent in the body of their initial message, so we can all see if there is any initial attraction to go further and get to know one another better. It is very time consuming just waiting for the picture of "they guys". Just a thought. |
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Mickie, We agree 100% and do not blame you one bit for being upset at all. It can be very irritating when someone is playing games or wasting your time. We currently have one person trying to get more pics out of us and there are no pics on their profile. Although this person has sent us only a few pics from the private album, we know well how some steal others pics from various sites on the net and hide them in their private photo albums on SDC. Explicit image available, join sdc.com to view We have a feeling this is what that person is trying to do and we stand firmly on if we don't see them on cam, that we better see good pics of them on their profile, not just pics from their private albums. Besides, if we can post our pics without showing our faces, so can everyone else. There is no excuses to not being able to post any pics at all anymore. Explicit image available, join sdc.com to view Mr. & Mrs. South! |
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I must agree with Mickie!
Besides, if you're proud of who u r plus the lifestyle u're in, than there's absolutely nothing to hide or be ashamed of!
Upload your best pictures and start enjoying our community!!! BLACKLATINO have spoken! |
posted by Unknown
6/14/2006 12:55:00 PM |
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Hi beautiful! I agree, if people want to get noticed they have to post pictures... I'll be the first to admit that we simply delete all e mails that we receive without pictures. PS: Note from hubby, "please update your pictures" don't post pictures that are 20 years old or that took place 50 or 60 pounds ago! lol You know who you are! Carmen & Jose |
posted by CATWOMAN
6/14/2006 11:07:00 AM |
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I agree ! Why not post a picture ? Its truly the only way we will answer the e mails. No pictures to us means either they are hidding from thier spouse or they are concerned about other seeing them in thier feild of work . But we all are on the same site and we share each other so if you cant share who you are then dont send e mails or expect to get a responce. |
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Well I would send a pic, but no photoshop re-touch would help me. I live in my own fantasy world that makes me think I am well hung and attractive.. lol. If I recall correctly I am possibly guilty as charged of commenting on Mickie's beauty, but it was only a sincere compliment (not a misguided dream of a date) and I did not feel she needed a photo to scare her, nor did I expect a reply. I will say it again, Mickie is one of the most beautiful women I have ever seen. John (still hopeful!!) |
posted by HOPEFUL
6/14/2006 8:20:00 AM |
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Mickie is right as are the others that mention emails w/o pics....afterall this is a visual world. In fact I've not tried to contact anyone because I have no pics to send. H and I are working on just that....and its fun.... |
posted by Unknown
6/14/2006 12:20:00 AM |
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Mickie, Sweetheart you have every right to vent and complain! Dani |
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Absolutely correct. There are several possibilities even onrecognisable. We think it is only decent to send a picture at least when you mail someone, no need to have them in your profile.
Also there are some pro photographers present who can make great pics in a way that you can always tell anyone that might think it's you that it's not. A good processing job on the pics does wonders.
Frenk and Daniell
DNF-Style.com
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posted by Unknown
6/13/2006 7:01:00 AM |
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I had pics in my profile, but I recently got good full-time job. A couple is on site, and recognize me; therefore, starting spreading rumors about it at the office. This is private site, and what I do in my off time is private. I could still lose my job. I am removed my pics, and I will send them to when they request my pics. |
posted by ACTIONNN
6/12/2006 10:24:00 PM |
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There are people that live in small comunities and are well know in the area, being a bussines man is kind of dificult people undertand this and soem of us have to protect our self especialy if we live and work in samll place like this |
posted by Unknown
6/12/2006 7:13:00 PM |
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We can relate, even though it says in our profile that if you contact us, plesase send us pictures, people still send us messages, wow nice profile, want to meet?Meet who, a black box? There has to be some attraction toi move forward, isn't that what made them email us in the first place? They found us attractive..... All that being said, hate to say it, but Mickie, we've written you a good 4 times, 3 of which were asking about party info and one saying we loved your profile and seeing you at a function and we'd love to get to know you better. Got the traditional read then deleted. Oh well, you are probably very busy. We do have pictures though, lol.B&J |
posted by Unknown
6/12/2006 5:23:00 PM |
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SUPERRRRRRRRR......BELLA ADORAMOS ESTAS FOTOS ...MUY PROFESIONALES . UN BESO.......K&E Explicit image available, join sdc.com to view????????????? |
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Totally agree!!! We keep wondering why some people take the time to create a profile but can't find the time to shoot some "decent" pictures ;-) XXXXX, Spontaanstel |
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totally agree with you, our profile says the same thing, this whole lifestyle is about attraction and we make our decision to meet based on how the other person(s) look. It is not a discrimination thing just looking for what attracts us. Sounds simple but it's unbelieveable how many don't get it!!!! j-n-j |
posted by Unknown
6/11/2006 1:57:00 AM |
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I generally assume that it's just a single guy if theyt are no pics or they basically have no self confidence Explicit image available, join sdc.com to view Since I'm into photography, I love to take pics and we are generally adding pics regularly! |
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We feel the same about cpls looking for cpls, yet they forget to post pics of the hubby!! |
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The fact of the matter is that profiles with pictures are likely to have 10 times more responses then those without. Now I myself do understand when someone is in a public job not to have pics, but you can be creative and the face itself is most of the time less important....to be honest I get more turned on by a sexy body then a pretty face. |
posted by Unknown
6/9/2006 7:54:00 PM |
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- completely agree whith you, what is the point with out the pics, and what about the ones with only genitals? "like if we never seen one before" come on people be creative.
- have some fun .
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You are totally right... I wonder what goes thru these people's mind? Explicit image available, join sdc.com to view Yet, worst than that are those that even after you assume they read your profile where it says "If no pictures are on your profile, send one with your e-mail" message; they still don't Explicit image available, join sdc.com to view |
posted by AIZEN
6/9/2006 11:49:00 AM |
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Yes I totally agree, the dark scary box is not nice when it writes to you!!!! |
posted by PARTY
6/9/2006 11:20:00 AM |
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I love it when micky starts to vent.........so sexy !! |
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