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posted by Unknown
1/29/2007 12:14:54 PM |
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Hi, Great question. I think the majority of ladies want a thick cock more than length. But everyone is different and the frame of the woman would be a deciding factor also. Size only matters if you know what to do with it and have staying power. Good luck to everyone in whatever they are searching for. Explicit image available, join sdc.com to view |
posted by HORNY11
10/4/2006 7:03:00 PM |
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I think size only matters to females that can only get off with large cocks. You have to ask yourself will there ever be a point when it's too big. For most women the bigger the size the more intense the orgasm, but you tend to forget that there are more ways of enjoying sex that has nothing to do with the size of your partner's member. If you fall into the trap of thinking size matters then you will spend the rest of your life chasing the big ones. If I was to ask the same question about a females breast size. You would probally hear simalar comments, but I woman can easily get her breast enlarged. Does size matter? To be honest I rather be with a woman that has natural breast, but getting back to the subject. I think after 8" it really does not matter. I have had no complaints. |
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hi all,hmm, lets see, bigest I've had was a 12 inch cock and he hurt me to the point it was not comfortable being screwed,, I am lucky that hubby is comfortably endowed(7" and thick) I really think that if the guys knows how to use it, he can make the ladies happy. BUT!! you still need something to be able to stir the pot with..for me and some of our ladies friends,, average and thick is very good. |
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I was blessed my boyfriend has a 9 inch. But I love big cocks and big does count. I say the bigger the better. |
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Explicit image available, join sdc.com to viewOh yes the biggest the better |
posted by Unknown
9/15/2006 10:08:00 AM |
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I like that fact that both men and woman have answered to this blog.
I think size is great, if you know how to use, because some women can orgams no matter how big the guy is. But there are other women that need more attention to get to that right spot.
That notion of being "filled" is good and bad, some women simply ca't take something around 9 inches or more.
When it comes down to it, the girl is the one two decides if it is good and if she can take it.
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posted by Unknown
9/14/2006 9:26:00 AM |
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If it is hard and in full working order then it is good enough for me...lol Explicit image available, join sdc.com to view I have never been one who has been that bothered by size, if a man knows how to use it and can push the right buttons then Explicit image available, join sdc.com to view I am more bothered by hairy cocks & balls - yuk! |
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Average is perfect for her. Too much bigger than average and she's not interested. She hasn't seen all that many small ones. |
posted by Unknown
9/13/2006 2:41:00 PM |
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how are you people measuring these things? My thoughts are you can only measure what can fit in a pussy. Measuring from your rectum to the tip and back to the base does not mean you have 9 in. |
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Umm, I am still thinking about those pussys that feel like a big jar a mayo! I think a 13 incher could not feel any friction in one of those. The ones that can break your finger off during an orgasm are the best and I have one at home. |
posted by MAYI
9/13/2006 12:15:00 AM |
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Hello all, looking what happen on SDC, I think that size really matter, at list for single guys. For what i percive the one well and hung are the requested, so maybe woman really like, big guys , here in South Florida at list. So maybe the 21st century will be the big size time. Like usual my wishes, be safe, happy and nver fargot to smile, xoxo Cuteitalian |
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I am with Alex.......... I can cook |
posted by 24PLAY2
9/10/2006 1:45:00 PM |
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YESSSSS---- SIZE matters, BUT only if it is attached to a six pack, tall, fit honey. Who wants a big cock if it is attached to a beer bellied, hairy out of shape guy? Ugh... I am a size queen and proud :) |
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ok,,here is one for ya....what is the official way of measuring your cock?From the top of your shaft or on the bottom from your nutts to the tip..lol....now thats two diff measurements right?Whats official? |
posted by SNAZ
9/8/2006 8:39:00 AM |
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Thank you to Miami-Couple for starting this blog, and for following it up with blog#2. Also thank you to all who commented, it really is nice to see many different viewpoints without anyone argueing. I guess there are no set rules on this subject. And it seems that everyone should be able to find someone to have some fun with ,one way or another. |
posted by OPTNPLR
9/8/2006 12:04:00 AM |
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OK, I've been following this blog since the beginning and refrained from commenting, but what the hell... First, What exactly is the average sized cock anyway? Secondly, as a matter of preference ... I don't need you to be so long that you spear my cervix, although, thicker I do like - not so much as a fit but when properly aroused I get VERY VERY WET and thicker makes for better friction! Honestly, there's more than one way to make me cum and as long as I'm pleasantly exhausted when you're done... I don't give two shits about the size! I've always said the same thing I've heard repeated through out this blog... it's not the size it's what you do with it. I will say that I have been with guys that were too small to bring me to the big O vaginally - and so we had great fun with oral. There have been guys too big that I was uncomfortable, but for the most part I love cocks, lots and lots and lots of cocks! For me the most important things are : physical attraction, chemistry, conversation, intellectual stimulation and CREATIVITY! L |
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- Thanks , now I know how to respond when someone sends me an e-mail asking me how big my package is...lol.
"Maybe the guys should start asking for a rating of "pussies" like-tight and firm-average-fits like a burlap sack-etc."
Although, I'm not sure how they can measure the tightness of a pussy. Perhaps there is a pussy tightness caliper that is out there that I don't know about. Insert at the smallest size and keep increasing the size until she says ouch? I've never actually been with a woman who has felt like a burlap sack or a jar of mayonaise, not that I know what either of those even feel like. Some are tighter than others, but most feel incredibly delicious when they are turned on. Not to highjack the thread, but does breast size matter to the guys who are with women who say size matters?
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That's a very valid point. How many times have you met up with a couple and the girl was so loose that it felt like a jar of mayo. Why should guys have to have a 12 inch cock 7 inches thick to fill that huge hole up? I just don't get it.I could be wrong but I'm just being honest and I'm sure many other guys would agree with me. |
posted by Unknown
9/7/2006 1:50:00 PM |
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When I was in my early 20's , I met a guy and when we went to bed and I saw his dick, and I thougt "Oh my god". This guy was huge, and from what I found out he was doing alot of the female in the office. Well here I am at 49 and still remember how he he came so fast and NEVER got me off and I got nothing from the event. SO. ..... size does NOT reallty matter. It is how you make your woman cum.
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posted by EROSCPL
9/6/2006 11:03:00 PM |
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Is everything a game of inches! Golf: "Missed the putt by inches" "If I could only drive futher!" Football: "Just a few more inches to the goal!" Dang, can't it just be fun! |
posted by Unknown
9/6/2006 10:28:00 PM |
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Size matters in different ways. I cannot get more that 5 inches inside, but I like to rub my clit on his stomach will fucking him cowgirl. My man is 6'", and that is plenty for the way I like to fuck. |
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I have noticed that all the women who have responded liking big cock's, all have men with large ones. I am barely average ,and although I would like to believe otherwise, I do believe that a larger than average size cock is preferred. I am wondering , what does a women do if she likes big cock's ,yet she meets a guy she would love to have as her man , but he is say 5 1/2ish. I am sure this happens. Does that mean relationship over? I would love to hear from some women who love big ones but hubby is average.And by the way ,who said 7-9" is average...lol |
posted by OPTNPLR
9/6/2006 5:39:00 PM |
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Interesting subject. If we play with a dildo, bigger is not better. If we play with a friend...bigger is always better. Go figure, or maybe that is impossible. |
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There is a happy erotic medium... that is about 7 1/2" thick to about 9 inches.. Any smaller can limit the combinations such as a good DP and any larger can limit the intensity of the fuck. So, those who fall in between can certainly offer the most fun... My man is about 8" and 6" circumfrance.. When we really get into it he just bootms out and makes me squirt... Otherwise if he bottomed out too often I would get sore.. Also, since anal sex is so much fun too thick would just be painful.. unless my ass was penetrated too often... then it wouldn't be so taboo and erotic. Keep it simple and fun an between 7 1/2 to 9". Just right for anything.... Even deep throat oral.... MMmmm (yes larger is nice to touch and try to play with... but really doesn't add anything other than that WOW factor) Too big you miss that body contact too... M & S |
posted by Unknown
9/5/2006 10:51:00 PM |
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i just got back from desire in cancun!!!! i had all sizes and i agree that it is how a man uses it that counts. there were some wonderful large ones that could work it !!!!!( hi scott if you and kathleen are reading this!!!!) and there were some that just did not. my husband is average and i think you can ask any of the women who have been with him he really knows how to work it to his and the ladies advantage!!!!! you can always tell when a man wants you to enjoy sex. i think he does like to watch me with the big ones. well i think he just likes to watch me with any one. he loves to see me get off. |
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DOES SIZE MATTER?I have to say yes, yes it does. BUT....it matters only in how the person uses itit. You can have an average size cock and it can feel like its filling you up to the brim..Then you can have a huge cock that, due to the owners inability to understand what awoman wants, may not be satisfying at all. I've been quite lucky that my honey knows (VERY WELL I MIGHT ADD) to please awoman. He knows that foreplay is a big part of bringing a woman to fulfillment.Now if you're too small,Explicit image available, join sdc.com to view [that's a shame]. knowing how to rock the boat is goodand well, but you still have to be able to get out to sea to stir up some waves. lol.Its all a technique, performance and style.Happy trails.... |
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Believe it or not I don't have a Gi-normous cock, but its just ove 9 inches and about 7 inches around. I have had a really tough time getting to do some things becuase of my size! I ahve never had anal sex, even the women who love it changed their mind when they see me in person. I seems I will NEVER EVER be deepthroated, lips touching balls!! Ohh how that must feeel!!! It seems the only guys who meet those girls are in porn movies. But then I see guys bigger than me get throated and butt sex ALL the time in movies or the net and then I get this "glimmer" of hope! LOL! But I have to say, if I had my choice I would have 5 inches.That stayed hard all the time. That way I could do everything! Any other hung guys out there wish they weren't? |
posted by Unknown
9/5/2006 5:41:00 PM |
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The three big lies of the 21st century:
1) The check is in the mail. 2) Size has no importance. 3) I wont cum in your mouth.
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posted by LOUPIER
9/5/2006 5:27:00 PM |
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Oh yes my dear you couldn't be more right!! Size does Matter Explicit image available, join sdc.com to view My man now is packing a 10" tool, and about as thick as my wrist, so I guess it's length and thickness in this case. I have had small, and above average in length before(not as big as I have now), but until now, I have not had both length and thickness, and until now, I didn't know I was multi-orgasmic, and having sex to the point where I have blacked out from cumming so much. So, the "eyes glazed over " is right on. Sin |
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Being a man I can't answer that question.Surveys I have seen over the years show the average size to be b/t 4" and 6" the other b/t 5" and 7". Many men exaggerate their size and some of those who have "whoppers" think they are Gods gift to women,and to some women they are. I am average size 7" and thick almost 5" around and happywith what I was given. I assume 5" is thick as I have yet to have any comments on here define what is considered thick in inches,only length. It would be interesting to know as alot of women have commented on thickness but none have given a figure. But all that is an aside to the key elements,brains,style,class,looks,education,physical shape,sense of humor, and respect for others just to name a few. Enjoy what you have,be happy with who you are, and striveevery day to better yourself and others to make the world a better place. |
posted by 14U
9/5/2006 2:40:00 PM |
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Thick is great. Too long and he bottoms out. Hubby is nice and thick w/a curve to the right..sometimes a bit too long if were going wild or L ON G because he's banging off my left ovary. Still looking for another thick one,,don't really want to downsize. Now for sucking an average one is nice. Love to be able to have it ALL in my mouth...guess I haven't mastered deep throat yet..better keep trying! |
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For me it depends. I love to suck a huge fat cock but for fucking I prefer an avarage cock.
For me the man behind the cock is more important then his willy :-)
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posted by PATJOHN
9/5/2006 12:43:00 PM |
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Size matters, to those it matters to. |
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Of course, size matters. Whenever I use my Hummer, I just can't park it anywhere I want to. When there is a lot of drivers involved, everybody honk at you. Worst of all, with a bigger thing, it costs more energy to run and help the Sheik, which are Arabs or condoms. Fuel or blood, same principle. But above all, a big clit is surely a real turn-on for me. Same for my not so desparate housewives. Easy to find, great to lick, you even can stroke it!! Its hard and apparent. You can even feel it on your pubis. For girls, scissors way is made easier... Matter of fact, as we can see on your profile, yours is one of a kind! You are blessed... So guys, why dont we require for bigger clit too as far as feminism move us on!?
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posted by LOUPIER
9/5/2006 12:06:00 PM |
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More than 8" isn't of any interest to me. Thicker is definitely best regardless of length. V. |
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Does size matter? Yes... of course it does! In sex, finding the right partner is like being Goldie Locks in the house of the three bears... you just have to find the right fit. As a man, I have been assured that what I was blessed with is more than enough, and that if it were any bigger would no longer feel good.... I've been also told that I shouldn't be concerned because it's not the size of the boat is the motion of the ocean and on a couple of rare occations I've heard... no, no, wait... you're hurting me (that one I found hard to believe, not as much fun, but a definite ego boost). Now, I'm a considerate lover and as we are both in this lifestyle, I've asked if she would like me to find a couple with a man who is above average, and so far her response has been ...ummm...no... that looks painful! I guess she places men with big cocks in the same category as I do women with 44 EE breasts... impressive to look at, but WTF am I going to do with them once they're out? Oh, and BTW... before you ever wrote this blog, your profile was one of the first ones I showed her, to see if she would be into a big cocks... although I must admit, I had done so for more than one reason, as it was your kitty that impressed me as much if not more than his dog! ;) too bad she got scared of his bite and said no. :( |
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Posts like these really are interesting to me personally. People all have different wants and needs when it comes to sex and satisfaction. There is a lot of a mans ego invested in the size of his member for no particular reason. Now I am above average in length and thickness, but I still get that insecure feeling like when you were in the high school locker room when I read things like this. I know Laurel doesnt like really big cocks. She gets hurt, and it lasts for days. I'm sure some woman have larger capacity then others just like guys have bigger or smaller dicks. I think that would affect how/what a woman feels during sex. Size in that case is relative to what the woman can take. It really is a matter of preference. Just like breasts or tight or lose pussy. Everybody has thier own taste. Thats what this lifestyle is all about, finding what you like and enjoying yourself. All of the above leaves out the fact that there are different types of swingers as well. Some people are all about looks and size others are about chemistry and sharing while some are into polyamory. Some are hard core some are soft sex only. So in some cases the size doesn't even come into play. For us it is about the people, we put alot of stock in enthusiasm over looks, size etc. We love sharing of an experience and the fun of enjoying each others pleasure together. My answer to all this is simple. Size only matters if it matters to you. I dont think there is a universeral answer otherwise. I guess the next question is does how tight a girl is really matter :P R&L |
posted by ROXLLF
9/5/2006 12:12:00 AM |
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Well fortunately for the average to just above average guys in the lifestyle not all women want or need the huge to overly huge cocks to get pleasure. We have found that average size guys are great cuz they do make up for it in other more pleasureable ways. I figure if a woman wants a lot more than I can give then bring out the big toys or shove a fist in it. Besides women that need the 10 to 11 inch super thick cocks are worn out too much for me to enjoy. Most women I can still hit the bottom and they enjoy what I have to give. So for the women that enjoy the average to above average guys: Thank you!! |
posted by CK
9/4/2006 11:27:00 PM |
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Guys with rather large cocks also have swollen heads. We have seen far to much of this BS in the lifestyle. We agree with what SERGIO-SUSAN 100000%. Size doesn't always matter, but a nice thick one between 7-9 inches is perfect in most cases, as long as they know how to work it & aren't to much on an ego trip about it all. Let's face it playing with the mind is the best when it cums down to it. Entice the mind & the rest will follow! Other factors can also apply to how much someone enjoys themselves in any sexual encounter. Why have something that wrecks the plumbing? I would rather moan from enjoyment than over screaming in pain, wouldn't you? Anything over 9" is a bit much to handle unless you are one of those size queens. I have found that where some lack in size they more than make up for it in how they lick the kitty & who doesn't love their kitty licked to the point they can squirt? OMG I said yes yes yes OMG yes to the guys that know how to hit the right spots just by licking! Now who can cook? lol I like that quality also! This all cumming from Mrs. South, not Mr. South! We figured a woman's point of view was needed in this case. |
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Every woman has her own idea of what pleases her. "Size matters" is a relative concept. I'm sure there are guys out there with huge members that don't know what to do with them. But, I've noticed that most women/couples here want only the super hung. No room (ha!) for a 6.5 incher like me on this site :) |
posted by Unknown
9/4/2006 1:37:00 PM |
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I think that "BIG" is a matter of perception. Some women think that 9 is BIG where to me that's average....I personally think that 10.5 and above is big..I do agree with the women who said that some guys think that having a big one is enough then they dont' work it as well. I've had that happen to me many times, It goes both ways ladies. Just cause you're HOT doesn't mean your a good lay...I guess that topic is for another blog. Personally I prefer the girth to the length, but what REALLY gets me is a man who can move his body and hips to the point where you feel him all OVER your insides...OMG that's the best...Fellas if the man above blessed you with a good package always remember that it's how you unwrap that package and work it that makes women like me cum back for more.....the whack guy with the huge dick will only get to hit it once.... |
posted by Unknown
9/4/2006 1:12:00 PM |
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I love nothing more than watching my wife enjoy a huge cock as long as there is some chemistry between all involved. |
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To me the thick ones are great!!! I like the ones that are just about average but thick. I love the feeling of being filled up. My hubby is great in both of my wished both above average and thick. Sure makes a diffrence to me to have the best of both worlds. So yes I guess if you look at it that way size does matter! |
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I know the guys hate to hear this, but it really does matter. Sex with a guy with an average dick is good, but sex with a man who is really well hung shakes you to the bone. I am more aroused, cum harder, cum faster and cum multiple times when I'm fucked by a man with a big cock. Hard to not like that! I'm sure that husbands would rather watch their wives with their eyes glazed over writhing in uncontrollable ecstasy than just an average, slow, comfortable screw. I know my hubby does! It's not an issue when we play with couples, but I really want that something "extra" when we play with single men. |
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From many years of experience in the lifestyle I found out the guys with big cocks are so proud of themself that believe their cock is just enough. From the other hand the guys with an average cock somehow work harder and take more attention the that lady's needs. Personally I like a guy that invest time and energy trying to give me more and more pleassure with hands, kissing, playing and talking. Most of the guys with big cocks are sure that their tools is just enough. Bad Karma What it counts is not the size of the boat by the motion of the ocean. |
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9 inches, 11 inches 13 inches...DAMN!....Ummmmm, i can cook.....lmao Alex |
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Size has always been very important to me. My first time was with a guy who was well hung & I guess since then I have always felt more satisfaction when with a guy who is well to very well hung. A main reason is that since I can orgasm with just penetration alone, when the guy is well hung, my orgasm are more frequent & occur very easily. When I play with couples it's not something I look for. If the guy half of the couple is hung then great but if he isn't, it/s no biggie. Now when I meet with single guys, them being well to very well hung is a main quality that I want them to have. Explicit image available, join sdc.com to view |
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as it would be or as it could be to be I do not know alone I know that certain age to be before of an appetizing woman the remaining portion I leave momente for one will have kiss |
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You know the old saying it's not quanity, it's quality? Well, to me that is not true. I love the big ones. And the fat ones go along withthat. Hubby is blessed with 9 inces and I love to deep throat him. (not to mention he loves it too) It's especially good when he's in my ass. OH YESSSSSSSSSSSSS! |
posted by Unknown
9/3/2006 10:00:00 PM |
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Nice Blog!!! |
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